Happy Tuesday! Weather is warming up a bit here, at least for a little while, and I have been busy baking and enjoying Autumn smells. My home is filled with smells of apple and pumpkin and I am enjoying getting to read by the fire. I’m sure by mid-January I will be ready for warmer […]
Anything you can do I can do better… Read More »
by Tracy Hoobyar I’ve been thinking a bit about NLP and how it has changed my life so massively and I had a thought that I really want to share with you. It’s about NLP, how it’s taught, and what it’s about. It seems to me that people like me and you want to learn
Everyone’s doing the best they can. Yes. Everyone. Read More »
Presuppositions of NLP: Sometimes confusingly called “Frames of NLP” the creators of NLP used these presuppositions in developing the field. Using these perspectives will give you the attitudes that makes NLP work. PRESUPPOSITION: A form of Perceptual Filter – An attitude, bias, point of view, perspective or set of assumptions or presuppositions about the object, person
MAJOR PRESUPPOSITIONS OF NLP: The Top 13 Original Major Presuppositions of NLP Defined Read More »
Last Friday two friends and I saw the movie Saving Mr. Banks, the story of how Walt Disney finally convinced author P.L. Travers to give him the rights to make a musical of her book Mary Poppins. It took him 20 years to accomplish the task! The trailers for the movie had me expecting
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The Secret Nitty Gritty of Rapport: Part 1 By Tom Hoobyar, NLP Comprehensive Article word count 1051, average reading time 4.2 minutes What is rapport, and why should you care? Basically, rapport is a quality of relationship between people. People in rapport are inclined to give each other the benefit of the
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Happy Wednesday! Frequently when people have a few convincing experiences of the power of NLP they want to jump into the most advanced models right away. This story conveys the impact of two very basic elements of NLP that are so powerful they can change the mind – and behavior – of even very
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by Jan Prince Word count 839, Reading time 3.32 minutes Many sales gurus and motivational speakers claim to be trained in NeuroLinguistic Programming and to be experts in the field. Unfortunately, those who have been “trained” by these gurus show up in my office in a state of self-denigration because they haven’t achieved the success
Is It NLP Or Is It “Ain’t?” Read More »
One of the most “famous” of the NLP techniques is the Phobia Cure: a manipulation of the sequence and perspective of imagined events that cause the body to react as if there is immediate danger. It has been a staple of my psychotherapy/coaching practice for 30 years. And I have seen it fail! Let me
How To Fail – Using The Most Proven NLP Process! Read More »
Happy Tuesday! We had a great response to last week’s article about the use of the word “But” in our everyday language. So we thought we’d share something else about language with you this week. (If you haven’t had a chance to read last week’s newsletter make sure you check it out here http://www.nlpco.com/library/use-you-buts) You
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Behaviors like procrastination generally get a pretty bad rap. What possible good could they do? You may never get around to reconciling your bank account, or changing jobs, or dropping certain people from your life. How could this possibly be useful? It’s just a waste of time, right? In NLP we pre-suppose that every behavior is useful, in some context. That’s a pretty broad brush. Let’s look at one picture we can paint with this example.
Procrastination: Thief of Time or Warning Sign? Read More »