Stories and Metaphors

January 22, 2010

December 18, 2009

December 3, 2009

November 11, 2009

  • There's Always An Alternative

    When NLP started practitioners usually only got to work with friends, college students, and really tough situations.  Friends because they're around, and tough challenges because the established practitioners, whatever the field, will usually only give up the ones they've given up on. (…)

November 6, 2009

  • The Magic of Metaphor

    Magical Metaphors

    Stories for Change
    Metaphors are one of the coolest and most flexible ways to use NLP.  An NLP metaphor is simple a story with embedded NLP processes of suggestions for change. (…)

July 30, 2009

  • Playing To Your Right: Mastery In NLP and Life

    In basketball there is a saying that you have to learn to play to your left to master the game.  This refers to the fact that most people are right handed and find it easier and more natural to play to their preferred side.  So for basketball players learning to have the flexibility to play to either side gives them a significant advantage. (…)

June 25, 2009

  • Magic and Mastery

    Magic and Mastery
    One of the biggest lies used in NLP is that anything can be done by anyone.  It's a useful lie properly understood, but few people take the time to get that understanding, and instead just fall in love with the magical thinking implied. (…)

April 14, 2009

  • The Vision Grabbed Us One Day

    Our world today is on the cusp of an incredibly exciting and precarious time – one in which people are increasingly questioning and seeking a life of meaning, purpose, and contribution. (…)

March 13, 2009

  • It didn’t all happen right away.

    This week's story is from one of the "next generation" of NLP Comprehensive Coaches, Mark Andreas.  I think you'll find it charming and enlightening as I did. (…)

March 6, 2009

February 19, 2009

February 5, 2009

  • More Money Than God

    In the spirit of these economic times, let me tell you a story about conferences and congruence.
    Thirty-odd years ago, I'm walking in Manhattan with a long-time friend. A piece of paper blows by. (…)

January 29, 2009

  • Applying NLP: More Stories in Coaching, Consulting, Leading

    Last week we brought you another great story of the power of applying just one of the most basic NLP techniques for establishing rapport ("Tuning In" Jan 23, 09)

    Here is another example - excerpted from one of the most popular articles we posted last year - of the effectiveness and transformative qualities of NLP

    The Power Of Presupposing: Positive Intent

    "Gerry was working with a senior executive who oversaw a budget of about $1 billion.  This man had important insights and expertise on how to architect a major strategic win in the business. (…)

December 23, 2008

November 20, 2008

  • Five Great Stories

    by Lisa Jackson, NLP Master Practitioner
    One of my favorite tools in the NLP toolkit is the use of metaphor — especially “teaching stories.”  Stories are universally powerful teaching elements because they create a sense of possibility. (…)

April 18, 2008

  • Steve's Healing Story: Reducing Physical Trauma

    Perhaps one of the most well known NLP processes is the phobia-trauma process. Usually associated with relieving psychological trauma, NLP has many applications in the physical arena as well. (…)